Somethings, really, lots of things, are unimportant in life.
The must haves I have for the man I'm looking for have changed. Even though somethings that are now off the list were never on it to begin with... I apparently have been choosing guys who could be organized in the same category.
It's those unimportant things I have been (subconsciously) putting on my list and while I was completing that list, I've been stuck with the same problem.
I'd say the problem was their lack of commitment, but I can't classify it under that label. One went so far as to buy a ring. That's out.
I'd say the problem was immaturity. But, lets get real... guys are immature. (If you're a guy reading this, tell me a story why that isn't true.)
Now, I would greatly appreciate a man I could goof off and be myself with, but I haven't dated one close to that yet. I've experienced nothing more than the beginnings of true laughter with guy.
Guys, immaturity as a negative means lack of overall character, not overall fun. When I say immaturity, it involves boys who want a buddy like they once had in childhood. You know the type they would wrestle or play (incessant amounts of) video games or chase girls with?
Boys, the man in you is reeling for the girl chasing to end and the life to begin.
I'm letting you out of the box.
